By DAILY MONITOR | Friday, October 18
2013 at
11:15
Albinos are some of the most marginalised groups in Uganda. A few of them narrate their tribulations:
Hassan Mulondo, 32, secretary-general of the Uganda Albino Association
I am the second born in a family of nine, four
boys and five girls. My grandmother helped my mother at the time of
birth and she told me that when I was born, my mother was in shock.
She could not believe that I had a different
complexion from my elder sister and because of this, she refused to
breastfeed me for the first two weeks of my life. However, my
grandmother fed me on cow’s milk. But she never stopped talking to my
mother, asking her to breastfeed me.
Also, the fact that my father accepted me because I
looked exactly like him helped in making my mother change her attitude.
At two weeks, she started breastfeeding me. That was the only time I
was discriminated in my family.
But all my brothers and sisters loved and accepted
me. However, it is when I started school, that I was most stigmatised.
Students never called me by my name but rather called me namagoya (albino).
Thankfully, my grandmother had prepared me for all
this so I never paid any attention to their name-calling. I always
responded positively and with time, they stopped. But one of my worst
experiences was in lower primary.
One of the teachers paired us up and gave all of
us seats. She gave me a back seat, yet one of the challenges that
albinos have is their eye sight. I was short sighted and therefore I
could not see what was on the blackboard.
While she was writing, I stood up from my seat and
went to the front. She turned and said, “You albino, what are you
looking for? When she said this, everyone in class laughed so hard.
I felt so small and felt like just running out of class.
But my grandmother had told me that to get anything in life, I will have to stand my ground. So during break time, I walked to the headmaster’s office and told him the whole story.
But my grandmother had told me that to get anything in life, I will have to stand my ground. So during break time, I walked to the headmaster’s office and told him the whole story.
I do not know what he did to the teacher, but he
went to class and got me a front seat. What I am right now is a product
of what my grandmother told me as a child. She always encouraged me to
take up leadership positions so that I could have authority over my
would-be discriminators.
So throughout my academic years in primary and
high school, I always held a prefect position. This helped me cope. I
now have a Bachelor’s degree in Commerce with a specialty in marketing. I
am married with three children and one other child from a past
relationship.
They all have a normal complexion. While some of
my wife’s relatives were strongly against our relationship, she was
strong and we have been together for seven years now.
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Antonio Baligowa Walujyo aka AB Walujyo, 29 Bus conductor and upcoming artiste
I am my mother’s only child and I grew up in Jinja
with her. But unlike other children, I never got to see my father
because my mother told me he rejected me when I was two days old. When
he saw me, he said they do not give birth to albinos in their clan so
there was no way I could be his son.
Since then, my mother never saw him. The only
thing I have are the pictures I see of him wearing the army uniform. But
lucky enough, my mother has always been there for me even though she
did not have money.
This explains why I never got to go far with my
education which hurts me to date. However, my greatest challenge was the
mockery I used to get from people while growing up. I remember people
in the community used to call me an albino.
I know I am an albino, but I also have a name. But they instead chose not to call me by my name and they also used to avoid me.
At first, I would get mad but with time, I got
used to their mockery and would ignore them. I think this helped because
they started getting close to me and in this way, I managed to make
friends although I had to leave them.
In my early 20s, I decided to come to Kampala
where I got a job as a conductor. It’s not an easy job since I have to
be under the sun but with time, I got used. Besides, the sun, I have to
bear with the passengers who make bad comments about my colour. However,
I am used to that. So I ignore them.
But what keeps me coming back to work every day is that fact that I earn at least $3 a day.
More so, I do not want my children to end up as I
did. This is why I put my talent of singing to work. I have six audio
songs and one video. My dream is to get a promoter who will put my music
on market.
I am sure with the money I will get from the music
industry, I will be able to buy my own taxi. The moment I get these
two, I will then think of starting a family.
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Olive Namutebi, mid-30s, Audit manager at Post Bank
I am a first born in a family of four. I was
raised by a single mother and I just thank God because as a young
parent, she had to take care of me, someone who was looked at as some
kind of weird thing in society.
But God gave her the courage to go through it with
so much stigma and myths, plus all sorts of beliefs of how she could
make me attain the black pigment.
People used to tell her to dip me in some sort of
alcohol for my skin to turn. Even at birth, one of the student nurses
present was shocked and remarked that I was different from other babies,
but the mature nurses around told her that I was a normal baby.
They counselled my mother so I think that is why
she was able to stand by me. But my father disowned me. He said he was
not responsible for me on grounds that his family never had albinism but
aunts from his side told me there was someone with albinism in their
clan.
Nevertheless, my siblings treated me with respect.
In school I was lucky because I was not treated differently, but I
always made sure that I got a front seat since I am very myopic.
Sometimes, people and children in the community would come running after me shouting, Omuzungu, meaning white person, meanwhile the adults would call me namagoye, (albino),
but people tell me I used to abuse them. While I do not remember, I
hon
estly think I did abuse them as a defensive mechanism.
estly think I did abuse them as a defensive mechanism.
I cannot say I found any challenges at school. At
times, I used my unique skin complexion as an advantage. For example, I
used to tell teachers that they should not beat me and they believed me.
I know it was a naughty thing to do, but who wants to be beaten?
At university, I did a Bachelor of Commerce in
accounting. After that, I looked for a job for five months, but it
seemed like five years and my first job was with Microfinance
Enterprising Development Network (MEDNET).
In this job, I used to source for funds for
projects. I went to over 10 countries and met all sorts of people. Once
in Morocco, I met a gentleman who was shocked to learn that I was from
Uganda.
You cannot believe that people in some countries
do not even know that albinos exist, but I tried to keep away from
people who tried to probe too much. I always find it intrusive.
Meanwhile, here in Uganda, people get shocked to
see me driving. They say things like, “So even albinos can drive”. It is
offensive, but I think I am used to such comments.
But while I was able to make it safely through
school with no teasing, other people like me find it hard. That is why
my message to the teachers is that they should give the best they can do
to make people like me sit at the front because we do not see well.
They should also tell the class that we just have a
different skin colour from the other children, but we are not any
different from them as the stigma in schools towards people like us is
too much.
But if the teacher tells the class they will listen. The communities should also know that we are not disabled.
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Faith Bwanika Kasaga, 32, Administrator at Pearl Institute
In a family of more than 15 children, two of us
were albinos but my brother died at the age 17. I am told that the day I
was born, my father had just returned from a trip to Germany. My father
told me that the doctors said my mother’s ovaries had a problem and
that I had not developed to full term.
Since my father was in the labour ward, he was so
mad. He told the doctors their work was to help his wife give birth and
not to come to conclusions they were not sure of. So I was safely
delivered into this world.
Both my parents were not only strong, but also
happy to have me. They took me home and pampered me like all my other
siblings who also adored me. However, as a child, I was always indoors
because my parents were afraid that the sun would affect me.
The first time I came out of the house was at five
years when I was going to school. At first, I was affected by the
light. I could not see properly, but with time I got used.
In nursery school, I did not face any challenges.
But when I joined primary school, I felt out of
place, I even lost my self esteem. Children were always talking about
me. Some were even bold enough to approach me.
They would pinch me thinking that my skin might peel off and because of this, I always kept to myself.
But one day, in lower primary school, as I was
seated by myself, a boy came with a razorblade. He cut me on the left
arm. It was a very bad experience; I was scared and I cried.
When I reported him to one of the teachers, he
defended himself saying he wanted to see if my blood was also red. He
was later punished and cautioned never to do the same.
In secondary school, I would still be teased and
called names but by then, I had regained my self esteem through reading a
lot on albinism and I had learnt the trick of surviving among people
who thought I was different from them, so I always made sure I held a
leadership position.
With this, I would command respect. However, when I
joined campus, I did not face any challenges and fortunately enough, I
was able to get a job as an administrator at Pearl Institute before I
completed my studies.
I believe I have always had God’s hand in my life
because right now, I am married to a loving husband with whom we have a
one-year-old daughter who is not an albino.
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SOURCE: AFRICA REVIEW
SOURCE: AFRICA REVIEW