Wednesday 28 August 2013

Lawyer urges MPs to make divorce easier

PHOTO | ANTHONY OMUYA Family lawyer Judy Thongori.
PHOTO | ANTHONY OMUYA Family lawyer Judy Thongori.  NATION MEDIA GROUP

By JEREMIAH KIPLANG'AT
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A lawyer who helped draft the Marriage Bill has asked MPs to introduce amendments that would make divorce easier and less of a burden to couples who feel they no longer wish to remain in a marriage.
Ms Judy Thongori, a renowned family lawyer, says that a couple should be able to cite “irreconcilable differences” as the reason they are seeking a divorce.
“We need to make divorce easier. Couples should just state that they were having irreconcilable differences rather than saying all those bad things we normally hear and having to prove them,” she said on Tuesday at a forum for journalists organised by Africa UNiTE- Kenya Chapter and Africa Woman and Child Feature Service at the Inter-Continental Hotel, Nairobi.
Currently, the Bill provides that couples can only divorce in case of adultery, mental or physical cruelty and desertion for at least three years.  
Ms Thongori said the law also ought to provide for pre and post-nuptial agreements and for the recognition of marriage by cohabitation.
The advocate said that contrary to the conception that a man seeking to marry other wives is required to seek the consent of his first wife or wives, it is not the case.
WIFE SHOULD BE INFORMED
The proposed law only required men to inform the wife of his intentions.
“The wife should be informed and she can agree or disagree but the man can still go ahead to marry without her consent,” said Ms Thongori. 
This, however, applies to unions under the customary law or Islamic law that allow polygamy.
The anticipated law gives couples an opportunity to choose the rite they want to consummate their unions. Christian, Islam, Hindu, civil and customary are the five marriages provided in the expected law.
The Bill is lined up for the Second Reading when the House returns from a one-and-half-month recess on September 17. Any changes will be introduced when the Bill moves to the Committee stage. 
The proposed law will consolidate seven Acts that currently provide for marriage and divorce. The oldest of these is the Marriage Act, which was enacted in 1902.

Source: The Daily Nation